you have to set a budget. all the bad ass looking fast cars have over atleast $6000 invested.
if you're just starting the hobby. I'd go with.
1)intake-make you think you have performance
2)lowering springs...around 1.5-2 inch drop nothing more yet
3)jdm style mirrors-at tornactive.com make the ride look 100 times better
4)front lip-or save for a bodykit
all those mods will be $100-$150 a piece and in my opinion are the best starting grounds
I just read above DO NOT BUY PROKIT!!! the drop is miniscul...not even worth it.
and as far as camber kit goes, two of my cars with neuspeed sports I bragged about no camber wear. after getting larger wheels, I could notice the camber wear since the side wall is so much smaller compared to big ole 15 inch tires.