Wow long!
I just wanna say its not right to hate anyone because of a stereotype. Not all gays are flaming. I have some gay friends most you would NEVER be able to tell by looking at them, or talking to them. Some gay guys are in your face but their are some people like that not just gays. One of my friends is out but he's not in your face about it. And can say from talking to them its NOT a Choice, why would someone want to always be hated on because of something they have NO control over.