I'm with Jess on this one.

I was seeing a nice gal, then she started having a bunch of stuff to deal with, and just seemed to shut me out without talking to me about it like an adult...and the chick is 29. F that noise. I said "get your sh*t together and maybe we can start hanging out again, but I ain't waiting forever".

I've come to the conclusion that NOT dating more than one woman at the same time is a shot in the foot. Making yourself TOO available sends a negative message without knowing it. I figure when dating a handful of girls at the same time you'll figure out the ones that really do want to spend time with you and will work to win your affection/time.

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