@jesse: cant tell if thats sarcasm o:

oh, and she lost her ring i got her for our 1 yr ..she was very careless helping a friend move and took it off and put it in her bag (unorganized mess of a purse) and it must have slipped out when she tossed it around. she's pretty distraught, so i might see if i can order an identical one and surprise her with it.