The only problem is I just started a new job(months before she said she was moving out). I'm also right in the middle of remodeling "our" house so I know I won't get crap for it. Third, I'm 3/4 done with a masters degree and it would be stupid for me not to finish it. I'll be finished in March 2010, after that, I plan on making some changes. For now, I'm stuck...