I think the fiancee and I are close to nailing down a place for the wedding. Venue shopping SUCKS. It seems like every place I actually LIKE has some sort of fatal flaw that would keep us from having the ceremony & reception there (i.e. closes to early, no space for a ceremony, too expensive, no hotels nearby, etc.)

Sorry about your self-cock-blockage Dave. I think in that situation it's better to say something similar to "Well, there's this girl I'm kind of dating, but I'm not sure where it's going." That way you haven't pigeonholed yourself into a girlfriend, and have expressed the potential that you might be interested in something else.