Originally Posted by
JessTD
i think you would be hard pressed to find a married couple in the 20+ year term that openly shares 100% of everything they are involved in.
I didn't say everything should be shared 100% - I said it was fine to have separate accounts. I just think it's odd to have your separate account be a "secret" account. I guess it works for your parents but it definitely isn't something that would work for me. I can't see hiding things like that from my husband.