So even though I haven't updated this thread in some time. I've been working on it.
I bought some upper arm mounts. They were rusted to shit. I couldn't put them on my friends car. I had the parts sandblasted, and painted. While that was going on, I had them put in the poly bushings as well. They look brand new.
I'm about 2-3 hours away from getting all the bushings replaced. The worst I believe is behind me.
More updates soon, promise.