Now I see why this blew up you took it personally, you identify with your religion too muchh:

I am not religious, I am spiritual, I do read the bible and I do (try) to follow the teaching of Christianity, but I am not a "Christian" as some would say. I know this doesn't make sense to most of you...lol We as a society have this perception and false sense of "knowing" things by labeling them. With this learned perception and labeling we limit ourselves and cut ourselves off from ourselves(yes that is exactly what I meant to type). We identify with labels and by doing so create a defined identity. When you do this and something or someone says or does something that goes against the definition of the identity, we are wrong and feel the need to prove ourselves right. This is where fights, wars, racism, hate, anger, evil, etc... are born. Even knowing this I fall victim to the perception. This is where Christianity teaches no one is holy or righteous, because no one is free of their learned perception identity. If you were free from identity you'd never feel the need to fight with people or change their views because their opinion would not change/challenge/find flaws in your perception identity. Without identity we are perfect, without labels such as good/bad, everything is as it is and should be. Without identity and labels we are divine. Life is simple...Live.