my gf said things in the beginning of our relationship that seemed lame and harsh about others. I couldn't help but to bring some yang to her yin. First I did it with kindness, but it switched to "but what about you......?!?"

When people say lame things about others, and not about you, it only means your card hasn't been pulled yet.

The couple in the clip doesn't really know how to allow the other's humility to last very long. Humility = > cohesion in relationships, or trust won't be allowed to set in.

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