You didnt do anything wrong....I guess its really to the point of dependance on instant communication (and other non-related technological shit that provides instant gratification we cant seem to get by without) that our devices have become us. Im not sayin that technology is bad (hell its how I make a living), but is it an emergency that one would not be able to have been contacted for a few hours?
Maybe Im just out of date but I turn that bitch of a phone off all the time.