I wasn't doing a complete flush, so yeah, I didn't want to mix and match. Turns out honda makes a blue-colored coolant they use in their cars it is different than the green and orange stuff.
Turns out the guy at NAPA had the wrong coolant for the honda - thank goodness I didn't dump that dexcool in there. $9 for gallon of 50/50 honda blue antifreeze at the dealer, no worries.
By the way anybody looking for a radiator NAPA had a new aluminum one for $76 bucks with a lifetime warranty!