Thanks...yeah, I had been under there before and realized that my tie rods were completely shot as were my axles - could wobble both of those around with ease.
Only other thing I can think of is my ebay lower tie bar - you know the cheap adjustable silver ones. I can move that around, it is on tight but b/c it is adjustalbe I can still grab it and pull it one way or the other - it just takes a really good pull to do so.
thanks