Sounds good I guess.
So is it really that bad to not have a plan in advance, to offer up a couple of suggestions or to even ask her what she'd like to do? (if she said yes to "doing something")
I'd never really thought of that, but seems it would take some up the pressure off me. Lowering the anxiety prior to asking her would probably be helpful, lately all I'm thinking about is what to do if she said yes

h: