Originally Posted by
Nightshade
I had a shitty experience with marriage and I always say "never again" when talking about it, but in all honesty if I found the right woman and we could tolerate living together for at least 5 years I would marry again.
So I guess my suggestion is noone should honestly get married unless they have been with the other person for more than 3 years or so because by then you have pretty much worked out the routine and had the major fights you are going to have.
Yea I mean I don't blame ya John, shit like that would definately leave a sour taste in my mouth too and I know I'd say the same and feel the same way. Me and my gf have gone through so much shit together that it's not even funny, and we still have each others back. In another month or so we will be together 2 years and after all is said and done when we're ready to do our own thing we'll be approaching the 4 year mark.
We've worked out ALOT our personal situations and also situations we had with each other over the past year including arguements/fights. This is my longest relationship by far when every other one i've had lasted maybe 6 mths tops and I've been with alot of chicks, a whore if you will.

h: But she's different everything seems just right. I guess you just know it when you feel it and is not something easily explained.