Originally Posted by
v6_accord_jerz
I wouldn't have posted and asked for advice if I didn't want feedback (positive or negative) so I don't take offense to it at all.
I understand what you mean and that's to cover my ass. I'm figuring this will start taking place sometime in 2010, by then i'm hoping to be married already by that time. I know everyone has their own opinion on marriage(s), some had bad/shitty experiences and never wanting to get married or married again but that's not going to change my view on my decision of wanting to tie the knot. I'm gonna take one step at a time.
I had a shitty experience with marriage and I always say "never again" when talking about it, but in all honesty if I found the right woman and we could tolerate living together for at least 5 years I would marry again.
So I guess my suggestion is noone should honestly get married unless they have been with the other person for more than 3 years or so because by then you have pretty much worked out the routine and had the major fights you are going to have.