Sorry,You can't have the race ride with out the the stiff bouncy....race ride.
I would continue to research like you have so far. And you have done a fine job so far but you have a ways to go yet before you buy anything.
1.What kind build have you been planing for? (example: Show car, "daily driver weekend racer," dragracer, circuit)
2. Have you tried doing a search yet? If not you might try clicking on search tool at the top.That will give you a great start.
Here is some helpful terminolgy you'll need to know in the future:
- Ground Clearance
- Suspension Travel
- Four Wheel alignment
- Camber (maybe: Toe, Caster, SAI)
- Camber adjustment kit
- Contact Patch
- Skid Pad
- Sway
- Sway bar
- Suspension assembly
- disassemble - reassemble
- Bushings, good vs. worn, polyurethane bushings
- Tightening to torque specifications
I would also consider researching lighter weight wheels w/ a wider width and wide DOT tires. Which neither must not cause any fitment issues.