Originally Posted by
NOPD
sounds like she is slowly distancing herself from you. I would sit down with her or call her up and ask her straight up. All this beating around the bush is going to burn you up. If she doesn't come clean, that means something bad is up and she just don't want to break it to you.
She thinks that it will still be ok if we try to get thru this. we've been together for 3 years and she thinks we're strong enough to get thru it but i am not sure about that. I mean if i had some sort of comitment saying that she would come back here then maybe... or some sort of plan. but we are just going thru it and not planing anything. I can't go see her in india (no time nor money) and she doesn't have any plans of coming here.