If you meet or know a girl who seems really awesome, and both of you connect so far pretty well, but she has a boyfriend already is it wrong to try and convince her otherwise she'd be better off with you?

I feel bad about it now and then... but I always flirt around with her and she's very receptive, and seems to not have too much problems with reciprocating. Nothing too far... and it's all been innocent.

I asked to take her to dinner, and she wanted, but then she said that maybe we should start with a lunch date instead. I don't know what to do. I know people have different opinions on this stuff... so I was wondering what you think. I used to think it was bad, because I would never want that done to me, even though it was. Other friends of mine said that unless they are married, nothing is set in stone and thats what dating and meeting people is about.


Any input!?


And no, no pictures yet.