hahahahaha
welcome to my hell a couple weeks ago
i will say this skells, if you have another machine running online and its got the first connection i notice then i always run moderate.
ie, if theres a laptop online before my xbox goes online then i run moderate. if i am the only machine on the internet i get open and then if someone connects with their laptop it still lets me stay open
i assume its the whole "sharing a single ip with more than 1 machine" idea