to all:
thanks for the input

now i know this may sound gay but my mom is paying for the muffler so a full system is out of the question till i get a job
so i guess my real question is should i get a high flow cat with a stock muffler or is that bad because it will decrease back pressure?
or should i just get a different resonator with the stock muffler cause i'd like it to sound a little better than original exhaust but thats not a big deal really
or just have them put on a stock muffler w/stock cat and stock resonator and leave it like that for now