Someone correct me if I am wrong but as far as I know, there is no "seal" on the intake/exhaust valves. If you are getting it through your tailpipe, my guess is a cracked cylinder head that is leaking coolant into the combustion chamber, that's how it is coming out from the exhaust pipe.
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