u were probably messing around w/ the wrong MES plug
there're two in the 95 accord.

one is in the fuse box and the other behind the driver knee panel.

take out the coin holder, take out the screw behind it, and pull off the whole panel.

on the left side, on the wall, u'll see the MES plug. if it blinks and goes out for a few seconds, but comes back, then u've got a problem.