Nightshade: Your right. The ultimate decision was up to him to quit but,
we all feel like we failed. We grew up with this kid and were not sure how he got involved sniffing. When we would have gatherings at each others houses we ( meaning his real friends ) would keep an eye out on him to make sure he didnt sniff anything. Which im 99% sure he didnt. Now last week he had a "going away" party since he was going to start rehab on Saturday and since my car is totaled I couldnt go and thats when he O.D'd.