i woudl see what your tuner is more comfortable with, a chipped ecu and hondata is the same thing essential, except hondata is a great program with the right tuner.. if u chip it u can use crome/uber, i would spend the cash and go with hondata, less buggy.. and people seem to have great success. i personal used crome pro on my turbo gsr and it worked great, but if i had to do it over i would have gone hondata and called it a day..
also neptune isn't a bad option but again your engine management is only as good as the guy that is tunning it