So one of my friends/co-workers just got offered a job as a Director at Nintendo in San Francisco paying a large sum of money, he could bring his dogs to work, has a 50" flat screen TV with a Wii and gamecube, Large office with patio, Nintendo flew him up there, etc..

Now you are thinking why didn't he just say yes!

Enter the wife. She doesn't want to move to the Bay area because she doesn't like it, has no friends and no job. She could easily find a job as she is a teacher and there are LOTS of schools up in the bay area.

He is almost even saying that he moves up there she stays here and visits on the weekend, but that's stressful on the relationship. He disparately needs a job change and who WOULDN'T take an offer like that?

So what would you do if you were in his shoes?

I think it's a tough call.