my $0.02:

4.77 gears - i'd avoid these because of high revs at freeway speeds

coilovers - bilstein PSS9 or tein flex: mid-range coilovers that get the job done

wheel sizes: 17s for performance and ride, 18s for looks. recommend at least 7.5" wide in the front, 8.5" wide in the rear. front offsets at least +48, rear offsets at least +55 (depending how wide your wheels are and what width the tires are)

17" tires: 225/45/17, 255/40/17
18" tires: 225/40/18, 255/35/18