yes you can. you might be willing to have sex. but who is saying that the victim is willing to have sex with the raspiest at that moment in time?

or might be willing to have sex. but not with the raspiest particularly. i girl could want sex but just not with that one person. so doesnt that make her willing to want it just not from that person or at that time. it happens all the time with couples. so im told in my social problems class.