It really all comes down to maintenance and yes how you treat your car.

My 00 Civic Si I purchased new started with 40 moles and I put 80k miles on it but I autocrossed it for 6 years straight. The only thing that I had to change out was the clutch as it died before I sold it. That's 350+ autocrosses, 2 track days, 2 drag races (at Honda Day), and 80k daily driving miles. I kept up on her like she was my baby. Changed oil every 5000 miles, filter every 3000 miles, coolant every year, tranny fluid every year, belts, water pump, alternator at 70k, flushed the brake fluid every year, etc....

My 93 Civic Si which I have now just turned 216k and I purchased it when it had 204k miles. I just recently changed the seals and about to do the belts and head gasket. I do not know what the owner did to the car before, but I'm slowly working out the gremlins.