you have our heartfelt sympathy. My dad is 81 and refuses to speak to us I keep trying. I hope you had many good years with him. PS we have 3 honda accords, 2 98's one a 6cyl ex coupe, one a 4cyl ex vtec sedan, and one a 2003 accord ex coupe with the body package 19" wheels, real dark windows, fog lamps, and hid headlights. One honda family to the next.