It's complicated, but on the most basic level, I was so busy providing FOR her that I forgout ABOUT her. Job just took up too much of my time and she held everything in, never being one to vocalize her frustrations. It just got to the point where we both stopped trying and caring. We're trying to work on it, cause 10 yrs is a long time to give up, but it will take some time. Right now, we just need some space.

Good luck, Reno. My only advice to you is to always keep in mind what is most important to you. You can always make money, but you can never get back time.