Originally Posted by
spankaveli
i'm not sure it's spoiling so much as being manipulated or maybe even guilted into doing so. maybe something happened in the past to the girls parents and the grandparents feel that monetary retribution will somehow pay it back.
then again, i may be over analyzing.

True, I didn't think about it in that way. Thats just sad that you would manipulate your own grandparents or parents.