Alright, so far so good, replacing that relay seemed to work! Its been six days and not so much as a struggle to start. Even after sitting outside in the hot Texas sky for hours. And to reply to earlier question redapple, a non-mechanic could deffinitly do this. At most with the right tools it should take 30 minutes. Here are the instructions very detailed , just remember you will need a 10mm deepsocket and an extension. Part cost me about $53 at O'riellys. Part # was R3265 write that down because the guy at the store I went to was a dumbass and couldn't find it on their computer by searching for it.