thats partially true. but the point is that having sex period, is a risk in getting a girl pregnant. im not putting him down as a person for what he did/does. he's doing the right thing by sticking around to take care of the future baby. im just disagreeing that there wasnt a "choice" to have a baby. fuck a girl. bust a nut inside. you damn know well that there is a chance that the girl MIGHT get pregnant... whether its a big chance or small chance, the fact is that having sex might produce a damn baby. like you said also, unless a person is ready to have a baby, they shouldnt be having sex then. if both parties agree to have an abortion, should the girl get pregnant, well that their personal choice and decision. if both parties agree to keep the baby, then that is a personal choice also. either way, those are choices that will have to be dealt with BECAUSE OF THE CHOICE TO FUCK AND BUST A NUT INSIDE. that was my point. it has no relation to my opinion of the person's character.