you miss 100% of the pitches you don't swing at, so step back up to the plate....sorry for the chessy analagy, but you get my drift.
i've had several guys i know ask me how i know/date some of the girls i have....my response has always been "what's the worse thing that could happen...she can say no?"
i'm not saying adopt a "don't give a fuck" attitude, but if you find somebody you like, just go for it. regret is a motherfucker....also after awhile this "attitude" will come off as confidence (if adapted correctly) which 99% of girls find appealing
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