lm going to give it one last shot with carb cleaner and see if that helps. the last round of carb cleaner h elped alot. if i feather the gas, itll eventually idle normally at a stop light.
so i think one last shot (maybe 3rd times a charm?) of carb cleaner for this part. if it doesnt work, im going to look online for one... and if i cant locate one, buy it new for 180 from honda parts unlimited.