It's just bullshit tactic after tactic.

When a guy is in a relationship, sometimes, they often pre-wife the girl. The guy will give them the best treatment, nights out, nights in, and become an overall provider. Guys don't ignore the warning signs of a failed relationship, it's just that girls don't fucking communicate their issues clearly enough.

They don't say what they mean. They often beat around the topic, throw hints, and assume that all is known. If a guy knows his car is broken, he does his best to fix it. No guy will ever fix anything that isn't broken. If the guy has no idea the relationship is broken, he won't fix it.

Stuff breaks down over time, but things snap over night. Relationships fail for a number of reasons.

Girls often need to have their senses reset too. If you constantly give a girl the best treatment, then it becomes standard. You then have to do something above and beyond what you're already doing in order to jerk a reaction out of them ... but we never mention this ... guys are natural providers. If you can't make your girl happy, you fail.

So ... onto the breakup situations.

Things will hit a boiling point. It's not that the girl has enough power to do everything on her own, there's some sort of outside influence. It could be TV, the internet, friends, another guy ... something ... but there's an outside influence to push the girl out of her comfort zone.

Girls aren't ones to take risks with relationships. Before taking the next plunge, they often stand in both doorways. One is the familiar, one is the "new" (a girl will never admit the "new" is "unknown" ... they don't do things like that.) So, to keep the old door open, they'll say just about anything to prolong the shutting. Instead of it SLAMMING shut, they'll say words to have it creek to a lock.

All the while, she's already mentally gone.





I'm here for you guys. Not everyone sees this, but god help me, it's happened over 20X in my 5 years here.





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