I think if she's going to hit like a man, don 't just take it. I'm not saying to punch her and knock her out, but I don't think it's fair for guys to just take it. My roommate's ex girlfriend was a psycho. One night she just started beating him with her shoe, he dumped his beer on her and told her to get out. Then after they "made up" they were fighting again and she was just telling him to hit her so she could go cry that she was abused.