sometimes people are to frustrated to search. Cant blame ya...I get that way too.
while I have no clue where it even is on my car, I searched for you and hopefully this could help

https://www.honda-acura.net/forums/s...ght=accord+VSS



I think that I have located the VSS on the transmission. This is located on top of the transmission on the firewall side. It is also buried under a bunch of hoses. It appears that I need to remove these hoses to get to the VSS. (which looks like a very tedious task) Is this right? I have not been able to locate the connector for the trouble codes despite many contorted positions. I will continue to look for it.