Smart man. You'll never meet a potential girlfriend at a bar. If your in it for something long term, it will come to you when it's time. You can't pressure things into happening faster.

I spent the last 6-7 years in a relationship, and all it did was lead me to smoke every day and try to "forget reality". Now I have a 6 month old daughter, and I plan to stay single for a good long time. All I need to worry about is her, finishing college, and my car.