Fogs you can get at handaaccessories.com
They even have instructions on the web, so you can probably do it yourself.

As for the rims, I would go for lighter rims rather than bling (ex.Volks). As for the brakes if this is just going to be an everyday driver, save your money. The stock setup should suit you fine.

Whatever you do please stay away from the Altezza lights in the rear.