see, i was thinking it was the fly wheel because it would act like it was just not grabbing when it was supposed to change gears, but i dont even know if an auto has a flywheel. that kinda sucks because i seriously dont have the money for this. and i dont have the money for another car either. im thinking of going to a junkyard and pulling a TCU and see if that fixes it, because the fluid doesnt smell burnt, but it is very very cloudy/dirty. i really hope its not me needing to rebuild the transmission.

also, anyone else have an opinion when it comes to flushing the transmissions as apposed to just changing the fluid?