Originally Posted by
DaGip
you have a diff. view of it man, theres a lot more to this story, shes 17, not 18. we don't want her to be with an older guy, my mom raised both of us with faith, and good morals, like i said before her friend was the one who turned her into this, she was always good, and got good grades and shit, shes just doesn't want her to get pregnant like she did at age 19, mom wants her to go to college and make something out of herself, besides that my uncles hates his father for stating that our family is bad, my uncle the Honda tech, is a big tough son of a bitch, so hes doesn't like shit like that, dad isn't around, he's in Germany 9months out of the year, but he too doesn't like his family, its complicated man.
Her friend didn't turn her into anything, she wanted to become whatever she has become. Achild has whatever morals they are going to have by the age of 15-17, how they act past that point is indeed an adult decision whether they are 18 or not.
You missed my comment about how fighting her seeing him is doing nothing but driving her into his arms. As long as there is struggle they will fight to keep together. Soon as the struggle is over they will get bored of each other because the turmoil is gone.
Seen it a hundred times and more.
Besides is this guy really a bad guy? I mean is he feeding her drugs and telling her to run away? Does he put her life in jeapordy in some way?
Sit em both down and put it out there on the table and embarass the fuck out of them by being blunt about their obvious relationship. Grab a handful of condoms and lay them on the table with both of them there and simply say, "I know you two are fucking so these condoms are for you to use. If my sister gets knocked up I am going to make sure you never use your dick again." Then simply walk away not saying another word about it.