here's the official word on spoof emails
Originally Posted by eBay Trust and Safety
Check My Messages to verify the authenticity of eBay emails – Any email eBay sends you about your account or requesting personal information will also be in My Messages. Before responding to an eBay email asking for information about your account or requesting personal information, verify it's authentic by checking My Messages. If it's not in My Messages, it's a fake email. If you receive a suspicious email that looks like it's from eBay or PayPal, please forward it to
spoof@ebay.com or
spoof@paypal.com. We will respond (usually within minutes) to tell you whether or not the email is authentic.
http://www2.ebay.com/aw/core/200610....06-10-11151529
The above is not entirely true though. Merchandise emails do not get sent to My Messages.