The tool I used for the oil filter (cause it was too tight for even an oil filter wrench) was one of those caps (you can buy at walmart) that go on the end of your oil filter (they have different sizes), and on the center of them they have a square for a socket wrench to snap into.

I just used that, put it on the filter, and then used my 12-14" torque wrench and just connected it to socket and it made it super easy to twist and take off, I mean, 1lb of pressure counter clockwise made the thing spin right loose, then I just used my hand.

That little cap RULES.

Today Im gonna drain / reflush the coolant (again) to make suure I did it properly and this time mix the correct mixture of water/coolant.

Does anyone have the page in the helms that they can scan, for draining/flushing/refilling a MANUAL tranny (98 RS/LS/GS).
Thanks guys!