Wow. I used to have a problem with it like 5 years ago. Then, at some point in life, I said 'Fuck it. I will NOT allow myself to be belittled by an object that I control! I will not allow myself to be unsure of myself! I will not allow myself to let a complete stranger shrink my self-confidence to nothing!'
..Actually, I just stopped caring one day. I just wanted to use a triad in real life. Who does that? It sounds so fake...