Lose the pin stripe, lose the wing, de-badge... Keep stock headlights and corners, keep stock tail lights, lower about 2 - 2.5 inches (you know that), paint the lips, ditch the mud flaps on the front, and get different wheels.. something gunmetal or black with a polished lip, perhaps. Check this site out: http://www.edgeracing.com/1995/Honda/Accord/wheels/17/

I know it sucks hearing that I don't care for your wheels but uhhhh yeah.
Best of luck.