im with the majoity on this one man, dont do it. she may look 20 she may be hot but at the end of the day shes still 14, shes unwise in the way of the world.
i right now have a 16 year old that works at the restaraunt where i cook and she wants me pretty bad. im 21, i wouldnt touch it, not because shes only 16, not because of laws, but because i know we could never have a relationship that i want, she has no life experience right now. and thats exactly what your going to ifnd out, 14 and 17 is only three years, but at that point its a huge three years, your thinkin about gett inready for college, shes thinkin bout gettin read yfor high school. huge difference in life

and that doesnt mean u cant hang out with the girl just dont bang her, i hang out with the 16 year old quite abit i just let her know there is gonna be no hanky panky, at least not for a couple years, when she turns 18 19 years old shes welcome to come find me again.