no, its definetly not the valve cover gasket. that would be easy to see.

i wiped all the oil down and started it, and started reving the motor up. i could see it spewing out the back of the head gasket...near where the oil jet is in the middle of the block.

its definetly the head gasket...i called up Ray Laks honda...the dealership near us...and they said that there is an updated gasket it lists for $78. Supposively they had problems with head gaskets on civic from 90-93 and there is an updated one.

thanks for your help.