I bought a rubber strap wrench from Sears. I had the strap wrench on, small screw driver in the flywheel (not doing much), brakes applied, and 5th gear-no go. I can feel movement in the drivetrain and I don't want to stand on the breaker bar and break more than I need to. I'm going to order the Sir Tools 50mm hex harmonic balancer holder for $80 and do it the easier way. That's cheaper than buying an impact and air compressor or taking it somewhere (which I can't do anyway). I guess the wife will have to drive my Civic for a few days!
Unless of course someone near Buffalo has the tool I can borrow, rent or purchase!